The Creative Paradox: How to Lead with Confidence and Overcome Overthinking
Lioness Conversations FIRST ever LIVE COACHING episode! Check it out!
Experience a raw and honest coaching session with Bola Gbadebo, an inspiring Lioness who, after a successful career in news, now sculpts profound human stories through film and poetry. Bola opens up about the anxiety that can accompany a vast creative vision, particularly when stepping into uncharted entrepreneurial territory. This conversation dives deep into the dynamic tension between trusting your authentic self and integrating external feedback without losing your creative compass. If you've ever felt paralyzed by the sheer scope of your dreams or the opinions of others, this episode offers a powerful roadmap to harness your inner leader and transform potential into impactful reality. You'll leave feeling empowered to take bold, intentional action.
Experience a raw and honest coaching session with Bola Gbadebo, an inspiring Lioness who, after a successful career in news, now sculpts profound human stories through film and poetry. Bola opens up about the anxiety that can accompany a vast creative vision, particularly when stepping into uncharted entrepreneurial territory. This conversation dives deep into the dynamic tension between trusting your authentic self and integrating external feedback without losing your creative compass. If you've ever felt paralyzed by the sheer scope of your dreams or the opinions of others, this episode offers a powerful roadmap to harness your inner leader and transform potential into impactful reality. You'll leave feeling empowered to take bold, intentional action.
Lioness Takeaways:
- Identify the critical point where ideation transitions into productive action.
- Learn how to leverage personal grounding techniques for enhanced focus and calm.
- Discover the power of self-talk and simple mantras to build unshakeable confidence.
Check out Bola's work and her documentary called "Confidence".
https://www.bolafilms.com/
Find out how to become a Lioness:
https://www.jenportercoach.com/
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Lioness Conversations
02:08 Bola's Journey and Bold Moves
03:46 The Value of Live Coaching
06:04 Exploring Creative Opportunities
08:59 Overthinking and Its Impact
12:09 Navigating Creative Freedom and Responsibility
15:02 Establishing Personal Standards
18:01 Learning to Balance Expectations
20:58 The Pursuit of Excellence vs. Perfection
28:05 Creative Freedom and Accountability
31:33 Navigating Partnerships and Shared Risks
33:31 The Burden of Leadership
36:10 Anxiety in the Creative Process
39:28 Innovative Ideas and Community Engagement
42:31 The Challenge of Collaboration
48:39 Setting Boundaries in Creative Input
52:02 The Journey of Confidence
54:50 Preparation and Clarity in Collaboration
58:01 Grounding Techniques for Creative Confidence
01:01:12 Embracing Problems as Opportunities
01:04:53 Growth Mindset and Self-Belief
01:09:00 The Power of Affirmations and Mantras
01:12:04 Vulnerability and Courage in Leadership
https://www.bolafilms.com/
Find out how to become a Lioness:
https://www.jenportercoach.com/
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Lioness Conversations
02:08 Bola's Journey and Bold Moves
03:46 The Value of Live Coaching
06:04 Exploring Creative Opportunities
08:59 Overthinking and Its Impact
12:09 Navigating Creative Freedom and Responsibility
15:02 Establishing Personal Standards
18:01 Learning to Balance Expectations
20:58 The Pursuit of Excellence vs. Perfection
28:05 Creative Freedom and Accountability
31:33 Navigating Partnerships and Shared Risks
33:31 The Burden of Leadership
36:10 Anxiety in the Creative Process
39:28 Innovative Ideas and Community Engagement
42:31 The Challenge of Collaboration
48:39 Setting Boundaries in Creative Input
52:02 The Journey of Confidence
54:50 Preparation and Clarity in Collaboration
58:01 Grounding Techniques for Creative Confidence
01:01:12 Embracing Problems as Opportunities
01:04:53 Growth Mindset and Self-Belief
01:09:00 The Power of Affirmations and Mantras
01:12:04 Vulnerability and Courage in Leadership
Creators and Guests

Host
Jen Porter
Corporate leader turned entrepreneur, I created "Lioness Conversations" to amplify the voices of extraordinary women—leaders who have faced fear, overcome challenges, and are now shaping the world with their work. This podcast is a space for courage, truth, and deep inspiration. My mission is to empower women to be brave, leading with confidence and joy, to do the most meaningful work of their lives.

Guest
Bola Gbadebo
Bola is a filmmaker, poet and former news anchor who works to foster more empathy in her community by capturing shared experiences. Her work centers on real people and raw stories to show that we have more things in common than we do apart. After some years in the newsroom, she now creates human-interest films that explore complex, societal themes like confidence, love, forgiveness and identity, all with one goal in mind: connection.
